Life as a single person offers many rewards, such as being free to persue your own hobbies and interests, learning how to enjoy your own company, and appreciating the quite moment of solitude.
However, if you're ready to share your life with someone and want to build a lasting, worthwhile relationship, life as a single person can also seem frustrating. Dating involve two or more people who have already decided that they share romantic or sexual feelings towards each other.
If someone is in relationship, they introduce their significant other as their boyfriend or girlfriend while others who are not, introduce their partners as "someone they're dating".
Below Are The 5 Signs That Shows You Are Dating A Time Waster;
SING 1:It's More About Sex Talk
If the union only gets exciting when sex is mentioned, and never on important issues,well, watch it. You may be there only to serve their carnal craving. There is a difference between lust-based relationship and love based relationship. If you are sincere and not blind, you will know this.
SIGN 2: Future Discussions/Plans Doesn't Include You
If they talk about the future without including you in it, it is a bad sign, especially
if you've been dating for a while. When they talk about;
• The places they want to see( not places you both would see)
•When they plan to achieve in the nearest future and you are not included in that nearest future.
In fact, to find out if they are wasting your time, encourage him/her to talk about their future, and see if you are in it.
SING 3: They Talks About Others The More
He talks of other women; she talks of other men. Talks about their exes, talks about attractive they are and how good they are.
If your presence does not stop him/her from talking about the opposite sex in a very enticing way, chances are they're time wasters. In fact they might be consciously trying to give signal indirectly, let you know they are not serious.
SING 4: The Relationship Is not Growing
Relationship that leads to commitment grow from meeting, to knowing, to exposure, and so on. Watch out for the following
•It's a bad sign if they keep you away from their family and friends.
•It's a bad sign if they never introduce you as their fiancè or fiancèè to those that matters in their circles.
•It's a bad sign if they avoid things that would send that would send the signal that the two of are growing closer.
SIGN 5 : Sends Mixed Signals
Sending mixed signals that they are not 100% ready to commit. Today, they are all over you, the next day, they avoid you.
Today, you begin to think it's going somewhere, the next day two days,
you are just unsure what is wrong.
Mixed Signals are major warning signals.
There are always warning signs that you might be in a wrong relationship. A time wasting relationship. Don't show signs.
Try so hard to keep a relationship that is wrong will not will not yeild the right results.
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